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Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Seven Traits of Successful People

Ever wonder why some people can never do wrong? I have been observing successful people around me, and experimenting with different ideas. Here are the seven traits that I’ve found work well for me in many situations. I think they will make you richer and more successful in many ways.

1. Successful people know what they want

Call it a dream. Call it a vision. Call it whatever. Is there something that you want? This was a hard question for me to answer when I was younger, and I think that’s perfectly normal. Having a clear idea about what you want to doto be, or to accomplish comes at a different time for each of us.
The nice thing about goal setting is that you don’t have to get it right the first time — it is an evolution of ideas, not an answer. You can start with one simple goal, and establish more as desired. You can have short-term and long-term goals, easy and hard goals, or any combination thereof. If you find that a goal is too easy, make it more challenging. If you find that you fall short, try harder.
The important thing is to develop the habit of setting goals as soon as possible. Learn about SMART goals, goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-specific. Here’s an example of a SMART goal I set for myself.

2. Successful people don’t just think, they act

So you have set some goals for yourself — great! But if all you do is think about them, you will never accomplish anything. I’ve always found it hard to take that first step, especially when it’s completely out of my comfort zone. I am not sure who said this, but it’s a quote that I like:
Thinkers think and doers do. But until the thinkers do and the doers think, progress will be just another word in the already overburdened vocabulary of the talkers who talk.
The key is to have the dare to dream and the courage to act.

3. Successful people have insatiable hunger for knowledge

You’ve heard that you should “look before you leap”. This means that you should think carefully about the possible results or consequences before acting. Having the courage to act doesn’t mean you should do so blindly without knowing how, or without considering the consequences.
Knowledge has long been recognized as a key component to success:
  • “Knowledge is, indeed, that which, next to virtue, truly and essentially raises one man above another.” — Joseph Addison in the Guardian, no. 111, Letter of Alexander to Aristotle
  • Knowledge is power.” — William Alexander, Earl of Stirling in Recreation with the Muses
  • Knowledge and human power are synonymous, since the ignorance of the cause frustrates the effect.” — Francis Bacon in Aphorism III
  • “If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.” — Rev. Jesse Jackson
My motto is never cease to learn, because if I did, I would cease to grow.

4. Successful people are curious and are not afraid to experiment

This trait goes hand-in-hand with knowledge. People like to say that “curiosity killed the cat”, but I don’t like that proverb much. I think it’s the opposite: lack of curiosity breeds mediocrity. I’ve written before:
My key beliefs about building wealth are (1) never stop experimenting, and (2) always look for ways to build, diversify, and shift my income streams toward passive sources.
If you find a formula that works and you stop right there, you’ll never know whether there’s something that works better. Let’s talk about a theoretical guy named Joe, for example. To Joe, investing means putting his money in his savings account. One day he discovers a certificate of deposit that pays four times as much. If he stops there, he may never learn that long-term investing in the stock market could give him more than ten times as much.
Everywhere you look, the companies that are constantly changing and improving are the ones that succeed. For example, 3M would never be where it is today if it didn’t encourage their employees to spend a portion of their times on pet projects. One of these projects resulted in the Post-It Notes. Now, where would 3M be without Post-It? Here is another cool example — square watermelons — who would have thought?
You and I are no different. Never stop being curious.

5. Successful people build their networks

I am an introvert by nature (Myers-Briggs type ISTJ). Reaching out to other people and building a network is very hard for me. When I was younger I thought I could get ahead on the merit of my good performance and work ethic alone — I was wrong. Networking is essential.
Networking doesn’t mean sucking up to your boss, or choosing to hang out with important people. True networking is about building relationships at all levels inside and outside of your work environment — e.g., friends, classmates, teachers, colleagues, subordinates, superiors, vendors, customers, teammates, virtual friends, clubs, etc.
Here are some fruits of networking from my own experience:
  • My employee’s wife works for Liberty Mutual and helped me save money on my car and home insurance.
  • My former manager (and now a good friend) spotted a great job opportunity for me, resulting in a promotion and a significant salary increase
  • The M-network and other personal finance blogger friends helped my blog grow through cross-promotion and referrals, including incredible opportunities like guest blogging on Get Rich Slowly.
Although socializing in large gatherings is still a hard pill for me to swallow, I’ve learned that it’s not the only way to network. It’s not the number of people that you know, but who you know, and the quality of these relationships that matter.

6. Successful people are passionate about what they do

Do you think Tiger Woods hates golf? Does Gary Kasparov hate chess? Did Shakespeare hate writing? Of course, not! They are passionate about what they do, and have a lot of fun doing it. That’s why they’re so darn good and successful.
Would all the money in the world be worth it if your life was completely miserable? Do you get heartburn on Sunday because you have to go back to work on Monday? If you are in these positions, then you are probably not doing your best, and are better off elsewhere. Think about it. Have you ever heard of a successful person that does not like what he (or she) does? Sure, some people can make a lot of money doing what they hate, but soon enough they will burn out and can’t bear doing it any longer.
My passion is the ability to express my entrepreneurial spirit. Sounds kind of odd for someone who has worked for over ten years in a big corporation. My previous assignment was drudgery, where creativity was a foreign language. My spirit was withering, and everything suffered because of it. On the other hand, my current job assignment, and now my blogs, lit a fire under the furnace of my entrepreneurial creativity. I can feel and see the difference. I feel successful.

7. Successful people are persistent and patient

I am totally copying this idea from Happy Feet — it goes something like this: “To TRIUMPH, you must TRY first then UMPH…you tried enough and one day…TRIUMPH.” Well, close enough. Basically, success doesn’t happen over night.
I had an interesting conversation with my mom the other day. We were talking about a successful political figure in Thailand. My mom said that he had failed so many times before he made it big — in a sense that having past failures is a bad thing. I disagreed and in my opinion:
  • People who never made it are as they are because they tried, failed, and never try again.
  • People who are mediocre are as they are because they found something that works and never try anything else.
  • People who are successful are as they are because despite their past failures, they kept trying until they found something that worked really well.
Not too many people succeed without effort, determination, and patience. Personally, I have never become good at something without trying a few times, and to get really good at something takes years of practice.


100 Best DIY Sites on the Web

DIY offers a great way to take on personal projects and make things your own. Although often DIY focuses primarily on home improvement, the DIY ethic expands out to arts, technology, and so much more. Check out these categories and more in our list of DIY sites that’s sure to get you inspired to get up and make something yourself.
Home Improvement
In these sites, you’ll find fun and useful projects to take on at home.
  1. DoItYourself: Check out this site’s featured projects for detailed DIY instructions.
  2. Mike Holigan’s How-To Library: On this site, you’ll find loads of information for home building and remodeling.
  3. DIY Homes: Learn about home improvement, repair and more from this site.
  4. Acme How to: Learn how to do just about anything in your home, from plumbing to pest control.
  5. HammerZone: Learn the art of handymanlyness on HammerZone.
  6. DIY Fix It: On this site, you’ll get access to loads of guides and answers to your DIY questions.
  7. HGTV: This site offers a great source for home improvement inspiration.
  8. Home Improvement: Learn how to buy materials, save money, and more with this site.
  9. Home Tips: Check out DIY projects for health and safety, plumbing, and so much more on Home Tips.
  10. Home Doctor: Find DIY tips and projects on this home improvement site.
  11. Hometime: Get step-by-step guides and more on this site.
  12. Ask the Builder: On this site, you’ll get tips from home improvement guru Tim Carter.
  13. HomeImprove: Find tips and ideas for home repair, remodeling, and more on this site.
  14. Easy2DIY: Check out this site for animated tutorials that walk you through each project.
  15. Bob Vila: Get DIY help from the master himself.
  16. Curbly: Find cool design ideas in this DIY design community.
  17. DIYnot: This DIY site is complete with a wiki, forum, and books.
  18. Ikea Hacker: Ikea Hacker offers great ideas for getting more out of your Ikea furniture.
  19. DIYonline: This site makes it easy to create your own design online.
  20. DIY Ideas: Get inspiration for your home and garden with this site.
Arts & Crafts
Whether you want to learn how to make your own macro lens, or just find a knitting pattern, these sites will have what you’re looking for.
  1. DIY Photography: Learn how to achieve looks and create your own studio gear with this site.
  2. Love You Deer: Check out DIY clothing, arts, and crafts on this site.
  3. Max is Now: Max is Now offers a great source for arts and DIY.
  4. DIY Design It Yourself: Use this site to design your own books, Tshirts, and more.
  5. Photojojo: Check out Photojojo to find fun photography hacks and DIY projects.
  6. We Make Money Not Art: Check out DIY art projects and much more on this site.
  7. Craftster: Find out what other crafters are up to in these forums.
  8. Craftform: Showcase your work and check out what others have done on Craftform.
  9. I-Craft: On this site, you can find your favorite crafts and save them in your craft box.
  10. wiseNeedle: Get yarn reviews, advice, and more for knitters here.
  11. Crafter’s Community: Find seasonal crafts, resources, and lots more on this site.
  12. Get Crafty: Get Crafty features forums, how-tos, guides, and more cool crafty stuff.
  13. Make Stuff: The crafts and projects on Make Stuff range from seasonal projects to gardening.
  14. Craftown: Visit this crafters resource center for loads of projects and illustrated lessons.
  15. Knitty: Check out Knitty for "little purls of wisdom."
  16. Craftzine: Figure out what to do with leftover Easter Peeps, plastic bags, and more.
  17. Chic Knits: This site offers knitting patterns for clothes that don’t look anything like your Grandma’s wardrobe.
  18. My Craft Book: Find easy and fun crafts on this site.
Tech
Find everything you want to know about hacking gadgets, electronics, and more from these sites.
  1. Makezine: Learn how to make your own fun electronic and tech toys with this site.
  2. Freedom to Tinker: Check out this site to learn how to modify and repair tech devices.
  3. Hack This Site!: Test your hacking skills on the challenges presented in this site.
  4. Popular Mechanics: This online magazine offers information on everything from green living to buying a car.
  5. I-Hacked: Find new and exciting ways to make technology work for you with I-Hacked.
  6. Gadget Hacks: Check out this site to get connected with all sorts of sites that offer hacking projects.
  7. Layada: Visit this site to find all sorts of fun tech hacks.
  8. Console Hacks: This site lists some of the best published hacks for consoles.
  9. Hacked Gadgets: Visit Hacked Gadgets to learn how to get more out of your gadgets.
  10. Inventgeek: This site celebrates reinvention, offering loads of fun and useful DIY projects.
  11. DIY:Happy: Hack gadgets, software and more with DIY:happy’s guides.
  12. Wired How-To Wiki: On this collaborative site, you’ll find tech projects, hacks, tricks, and tips.
  13. Hack a Day: This site features a new hack every day.
  14. MakeUseOf: Check out web apps, tools, and more on this DIY site.
  15. DIY Live: Learn how to create and do things with technology using DIY Live.
  16. Hack N Mod: Take on these awesome hacks, mods, and projects.
  17. Zedomax: Find super-cool DIYs, hacks, and more on Zedomax.
Lifehacking
These sites present great ways to apply the DIY principle to everyday life.
  1. Lifehackery: Check out Lifehackery to turn everyday objects into useful things.
  2. DIY Planner: This community likes to take productivity into their own hands.
  3. Productivity 101: Increase your personal productivity using tips and tools from this site.
  4. Instigator Blog: Make more out of your ideas with the help of this blog.
  5. 43 Folders: This blog, created by Merlin Mann, focuses on organization, productivity, and getting things done.
  6. Life Optimizer: Become more successful and productive with this site.
  7. Lifehacker: The Lifehacker blog offers lots of technology and productivity hacks designed to make your life easier.
  8. Ririan Project: Check out this personal development blog to find out how you can apply DIY principles to your life.
  9. Dumb Little Man: Here you’ll find loads of tips for productivity, projects,frugality, and more.
  10. Aim for Awesome!: Find tips for awesome personal development on this site.
  11. FlyLady: Aimed at housewives, FlyLady aims to help you get control of your home.
  12. Business Hackers: Here you’ll find loads of information on how you can get work done quickly.
  13. LifeDev: Take a DIY approach to life development using this site.
  14. The Next 45 Years: Visit The Next 45 Years to learn about Lifehacking for the future.
  15. HackCollege: HackCollege features all of the hacks a college student might want to know about-from "college drinking games to study skills."
  16. Get Rich Slowly: JD at Get Rich Slowly has lots of great ideas and advice for DIY frugality.
  17. The Optimized Life: Use the tips you’ll find on this site to make your life the best it can be.
  18. Frugal Hacks: This site turns DIY into frugality.
  19. Zen Habits: Hack your life to zen with this site.
  20. LifeClever: This site is always helpful, whether they’re teaching you to organize your workspace or just find cheap gas.
  21. Mind Hacks: Get a look at what’s going on inside your mind, and take it to the next level with this site.
  22. Write to Done: Learn how to hack writing with this incredibly helpful blog.
  23. Wise Bread: Follow this site for great tips on DIY frugality.
  24. Biz Plan Hacks: Use the tips from this site to make life as a business owner easier.
  25. Christian Lifehacking: This blog features lifehack tips and tools focused on Christianity.
  26. Lifehack: Lifehack’s posts focus on organization, inspiration, and productivity.
  27. Study Hacks: This site offers lifehack advice for students.
General
Check out these sites to find anything and everything DIY.
  1. DIY Life: Check out DIY Life for projects ranging from tech to home improvement.
  2. wikiHow: Visit wikiHow to make use of the world’s largest collaborative how-to manual.
  3. Instructables: Find out how to do projects from your peers on Instructables.
  4. Hackszine: On Hackszine, you’ll find everything from Facebook to food.
  5. Hints-n-Tips: Check out this site to find practical information for just about every topic out there.
  6. SoYouWanna: Learn what you want to do on this advice site.
  7. ReadyMade: On ReadyMade, you’ll learn how to make items for your home and more.
  8. Daily DIY: Make and modify everyday items to create something great on this site.
  9. Do It 101: Check out this site to learn about gardening, technology, health, and more.
  10. ElephantStaircase: ElephantStaircase boasts a wiki as well as a number of different project pages.
  11. How To Do Things: Learn how to do things ranging from raising earthworms to how to buy sod.
  12. DIY Chatroom: Although this forum primarily focuses on home improvement, you’ll find great tips for computer repairs and upgrades as well as automotive repairs.
  13. The Do-It-Yourself Channel: Visit Propeller’s DIY channel to find instructional information from around the web.
  14. How2pointoh: Check out this blog for projects ranging from magnetic potholders to time lapsing.
  15. Wikia DIY Culture: Find arts, crafts, games, and lots more in this source.
  16. DIY Network: Find products, advice, and more for DIY projects through this network.
  17. HowStuffWorks: Although it’s not exclusively a how-to site, HowStuffWorks will give you the insight you need to complete your DIY projects.
  18. eHow: On this site, you’ll find out how to do nearly anything you can imagine.

Monday, October 14, 2013

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